Writing weddings

For only the second time in 11 years, I'm sharing a wedding in November. It takes place in my church, and tomorrow I am meeting with the other minister to agree who does what. While I enjoy the sharing practice when we eventually get there, I'm always slightly concerned about the who gets the ball rolling preparation. I'm not very good at meetings where there is not a a small piece of pre-prep for haggling over. However I'm also conscious that sometimes one person's pre-prep often stops the other person being creative.

These are trivial things to worry about, but helpful diversions from other things at the moment.